The most important thing about that day is us. It is easy to get consumed with all the details, whether small or large, and to forget why we are getting married in the first place. When you start getting into the heavy planning and you don't even hang out anymore because you are "to busy" with your wedding.....you are in trouble.
It is so hard to make time for everything, but it has to be done. The most important thing is keeping our relationship healthy......we are about to be married! The first couple months of being engaged, were really hard for me to balance. In the midst of all the details it is hard to stay focused on each other and the reason we are planning a wedding in the first place.
It seems silly, we are planning our wedding, and we are neglecting "us". We neglect a lot of things when we're busy though. We plan our lives day by day without consulting or spending the right amount of time with God, we are neglecting Him. We become slightly selfish and self-absorbed; or wedding-absorbed, and our relationships are affected. Keeping a healthy balance brings a challenge, but I am finding it also brings stronger more dedicated and faithful relationships.
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